what do you think is up with this guy please help?
Aug 05, 2009 by Girly Girl | Posted in Singles & Dating
I have been dating this guy for 2 months. He asked me to go on vacation with him. We never said we were exclusive but he did say he hasnt been seeing anyone since me so I felt satisfied with that and decided to go with him. It was a wonderful time... for the most part.....
He was sweet, loving and kind very affectionate too but here is the problem. he didn't inituate sex often. We were at an extremly romantic
island and he even told me I was the hottest girl there at the resort. There were even nights when we wouldn't do it at all!? He is not an older guy so my first question would be.....can u be in your early 30's and have a problem getting aroused??? Sex was fine a week b4 we went.
He would see me in hot outfits and say I looked hot and gorgeous but didn't really seem to follow thru so I would start it up most of the time. Well finally I had had enough and gave up on being the one to inituate. I feel like he must not like me anymore but then......question 2...if he didn't why would he compliment me all the time, buy me gifts there and hold my hand and be affectionate???
I do know he was dumped by an ex while they were engaged but that was 2 years ago... who hasn't been dumped at some point in their life.
I do know he told me I was out of his league but we started dating anyway. I think hes gr8 but since he never took it a step more serious on vacation officially asking me to be his girlfriend I don't feel it's my place to bring up a viagra talk but it's driving me crazy. Since we have been back he has been distant. My guy friend feels he is just intimidated because he may not want to be dumped again especially by a girl "out of his league". I say maybe it was something i did or didn't do.
ps. I'm 6 years older than him and don't feel out of his league.
also if there was another girl I feel he would have been sneaking phone calls n texts while we were there in fact i saw his phone on the desk unattended the whole time we were there even while he was in the bathroom.
The problem could be the beach. Spending a lot of time in the water has its downsides... =/
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Lee | Aug 05, 2009
It's unlikely someone in his early thirties would have erectile dysfunction, and if you were as hot as he said you were, arousal might now have been an issue either. But maybe he's not over the former girlfriend yet. Maybe he's still in that hellish post breakup limbo of "I can't stop thinking about her" and "her" is not you. It'd be interesting to know if he and she had been at the same vacation spot once upon a time. Two years is a long time to grieve a relationship but maybe he hasn't moved on?
Or maybe he is intimidated and afraid that if he gets too attached to you, a girl out of his league, he'll not survive it this time if the relationship ends. We tend to look forward in our lives by paying too much attention to the past. If the breakup was bad, and now he's gotten attached to you, he might be protecting himself from further hurt by being the first to back off.
Maria Reine | Aug 05, 2009
Cheripie | Aug 05, 2009
So my first question would be, "who" picked up the tab for the vacation? If you went 50/50, then that diffuses my question. Did you? Or did he pay for it all, or did you?
If you had to initiate the love-making, then either he has a sexual arousal problem: he is really not greatly attracted to you; or perhaps your sexual needs are simply greater than his; all kinds of possible reasons for a lessened interest in sex on his part.
You may consider these grossly vulgar questions: but, who was on top(if there was a top and bottom); did either of you perform fellatio on the other, or neither; some people like it "this" way, others, "that" way.
He was dumped after becoming engaged? That should raise a "there's a serious problem here" sign. Have you ever observed him closely with very attractive guys? Could be---------!
If you still really care for him, and want the relationship to continue, then my advice is unbeknownst to him, contact a competent therapist and discuss the matter thoroughly with them. For you could possibly be letting yourself in for a lot of needless sufferring.
Good luck,
Alberich
Alberich | Aug 05, 2009
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