Im 48. He is 62. Married 20 yr. Sex 1 time in year. He got cheap gift for coworker on our vacation. Cheating?
Aug 28, 2009 by Renie61 | Posted in Marriage & Divorce
We have a wonderful life. Nice home. Great son. Good jobs. In the last year he has not initiated sex at all. I initiated it on our anniversary in 2008. Recently I initiated it again. It have been well over a year. Sex was okay. I initiated the next morning and he could not be bothered. Said he cannot keep an erection. I find that to be odd. He is healthy. I have encouraged him to see doc and get viagra or check medical condition. He just shrugs me off. While we were on vacation, he purchased a shot glass for a young woman that works in a business associated with his. I was shocked. It was a cheap gift but it struck me as out of character. He said he was buying it for her. That she collects them. A few days later I asked her name. He blurted it out. I looked her up and she is about 35 years old. I think it is rather odd that he was thinking of her and shopping for her in a gift shop while vacation with her family. I think it is odd that he knows what she collects (even if it is a cheap shot glass) since she works in an office and just comes to the front desk. He knows what she collects?? I have looked at phone records and don't find anything odd. He always has cash on him and travels from shop to shop freely during the day. No way to track that. He says she controls the paperwork in this store and he was just being nice. Of course, I am thinking she sees him writing checks for 80K to 100,000 and she thinks he is a good catch. Am I jumping to conclusions? Also, for the last year he often drinks 3 to 4 vodkas at night and goes to bed at 9:30. He kept accusing me of snoring until I finally started sleeping in the guest room to keep from bothering him. Am I blind? We have a long and great relationship otherwise.
I made a typo... we were on vacation with our family - not her family. I have no idea who she is.
It was just so out of character and over the years our relationship has gotten "comfortable" but stale. The lack of attention makes me sad and lonely at times.
:-(
Highly unlikely that he is cheating. It was just a gift for a coworker. don't over think this. He just is not interested anymore... the alcohol, fatique, stress, age, all contribute. He should see an MD but probably won't.
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Cracker Jack | Aug 28, 2009
Marissa :) | Aug 28, 2009
Never bought presents...
It depends on the guy/girl
Hector | Aug 28, 2009
cherish c | Aug 28, 2009
From what I've read I don't think you should over-think this gift.
Mr. Zed | Aug 28, 2009
Alcohol use impairs libido.
sheloves_dablues | Aug 28, 2009
Keep your eye on him!
You would have been better off marrying someone closer to your age!
IslandArtiste | Aug 28, 2009
If he is writing checks for $80k to $100K and wanted to bed her, he would get her something nicer than a cheap little shot glass.
Tricia G | Aug 28, 2009
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